The answer to how long to wait is…

Even though I’ve totally and completely messed it up, I know now how long would have been the proper amount of time to wait after my divorce before I made any life changes. 5 years. I jumped in way too soon and find myself in the thick of now waking up, looking around, and thinking WTF happened and WTF have I done. So now the question is going to be how to make sense of it all. Both the past, the present and the future. The good news is that I’m here now. Ready to deal with what I’m entirely responsible for whether I like it or not. To quote Anna Sale’s new book, I need to learn how to Talk About Hard Things now. As always, to be continued. Or as the quote goes, if it helps, “Life is like a firefly in the night.”